Wednesday, October 24, 2012

Marathon Wrap Up

The Detroit Marathon was this past weekend and I have to say it is some of the most fun I have had around running in a long time. Four of my LV friends and a Christian Brother I know came in for the weekend. Myself and Br. Paul ran the marathon and my friend Janet ran the half. Melissa, Mary and Denis all came to cheer and see Detroit. 

I spent most of Friday and Saturday taking my friends around the city and going to the Expo to pick up our running numbers. We got all over the city and the weather was amazing. We had a big pasta dinner on Saturday night and I attempted to get some sleep before the race....this is really never a success. We got up around 5:30am and headed out the door a little after 6am. Evelyn was kind enough to give Paul, Janet and I a ride to the starting line. We had time to go to the bathroom, drop of our gear and gear check and hit the starting line. Paul was in a much higher starting corral than me and Janet so he started the race much sooner than us. We got across the starting line around 7:20am and hit the streets. 

A few facts about the Detroit Marathon. We run across two bridges and through one tunnel. One of the bridges and the tunnel bring us back and forth to Canada. There was over 18,000 runners but only about 3,700 did the marathon. They have an international half marathon that obviously goes to Canada and a Michigan Half which stays in Detroit. I expected the race course to be pretty empty on the back side but with the variation of runners doing different races it was never really empty. 

Anyway around mile 2 we start to head up the Ambassador Bridge and to Canada. Mary, Melissa and Denis were waiting here to cheer which was great. They had planned out multiple locations on the race course to see us throughout the day. Around mile 3 I lost track of Janet on the bridge. It was pretty packed and you had to keep moving. We knew I would probably be running a faster race than her so I just kept going. The view from the top of the bridge was amazing. The sun was just beginning to rise and the city looked great with the morning light hitting it. You had to remind yourself it was okay to slow down and take a look. 

I had trained with the hopes of running at my best a 4:15 marathon but I knew this might be a long shot...my fastest time thus far in marathons is around 4:29 so that is a significant time drop. Early on in the race, I was keep pace and feeling pretty good. We ran about 3 miles in Canada and headed to the Windsor Tunnel which would take us back to Michigan. I was warned that the tunnel gets really hot but I wasn't ready for this. It is underground for about 1 mile and there is even an underground marker at the exact border between the two countries. I was sweating so much at this point. Outside the tunnel it was perfect running weather. Inside the tunnel felt like an oven. I was also warned to make sure my running number was clearly visible because customs officers would stop you upon returning to the US if they couldn't see your number. Honestly after running the race, this seemed like a customs nightmare but they obviously make it work. I asked Janet (who is from Los Angeles) if they would ever do a race like this between California and Tijuana. She just laughed.

Anyway, we emerged from the tunnel to a blast of fresh cold air which felt great...as we turned the corner onto Jefferson, I heard MC Hammer "You Can't Touch This" and they had a big banner saying "Welcome back to the United States." I have to say it was a little exhilarating especially with all the people watching looking for their friends and family. 

I kept my pace and started looking for my family around mile 10.5 where they said they would be waiting. Right on cue I saw them and stopped to say a little hello. It is always great to see people you know around the course. It gives you that little blast of energy you need. My stomach was also feeling a little upset at this point and I found some porta potty's with no lines and hit one up. As I got close to the half marathon mark, my legs were already starting to feel it. I had gone out a little faster than I intended and was worried about the second half of the race. My friend Mary intended to join me at mile 15 and run to the end of the race. Right on cue she was there with Melissa and Denis at mile 15. I was so grateful to have a running partner at this point. I could tell I was starting to struggle and the next 10 miles were going to be brutal.

Mary made a point of talking to me and just telling me random stories which was great. Initially I was good at chatting back with her but as we progressed on the course my ability to respond quickly diminished. By mile 18, I was just asking her one line questions. My mile 22, I was just responding to her stories with one word answers. By mile 24, I was barely able to grunt a response back to her...and at that point I remember thinking "Stop talking to me...I don't have the extra calories to listen!" This wasn't actually true...I was so grateful to have someone running with me and motivate me to keep running. I also felt my body getting tighter and screaming at me to stop. My quads hurt so bad and literally every time I closed my eyes to blink I had to work very hard to open them again. I have never felt this depleted in a race before but I also knew I was incredibly close to getting my goal time.

Mary encouraged me to keep running and even helped me switch out my shirts when I was getting too hot. Throughout the whole race, I was using a run/walk method that I had read about for years but never used. Basically you run for a predetermined amount of time and then walk for a predetermined amount of time. I was running for 9 minutes and walking for 1 minute throughout the entire race. The fellow who came up with this method is a huge believer in it...but the idea is it only works if you do it from the beginning of the race even when you are feeling great. If you start walking once you start to feel tired...you have already lost the opportunity that the 1 minute brings to your bodies. I don't know the research behind it but I know it worked for me. Towards the end of the race these walk breaks became harder and harder. I had a difficult time starting to run after each of them. Mary and I decided together that I should probably skip the last walk break and just run the last mile....that was probably the best decision ever. I am not sure I would have been able to run again if I stopped. 

Around mile 25, I saw my cousin Josh's wife, Pam, and their three year old Gina. It was literally at probably my lowest point on the race. I was so tired, felt like I couldn't keep my eyes open, and was struggling to finish. It was a huge to see them...and extra cute was to see Gina running after me with the sign her and Pam made. This little bit motivated me to keep going and push on. 

I rounded the corner and saw the 26 mile sign...at the top of a hill....I pushed up it and rounded the corner. Mary cut out at this point and I saw Melissa, Denis, and Janet all waiting along the finish line route. I crossed the finish in an official time of 4:15:56...which was my goal. I couldn't hardly believe it. I knew I trained well for the race but I wasn't incredibly optimistic about finishing in my goal time. I have trained well for marathons in the past and completely flopped in the second half of the race. I really think having Mary run with me was a huge burst and also having my friends there cheering. Here is the link to my finishing time, splits and pace:


I met up with my dad, Paul and Janet at the gear check. Paul finished in a great time and qualified for Boston. The first thing Janet told me was she puked three times on the Ambassador Bridge. Apparently she wasn't feeling too well! She did say after that she felt great and had a much easier time running. As a Detroiter, I thought this was great because the owner of the Ambassador Bridge is a terrible man and is currently trying to block the building of another bridge over the river...much to the chagrin of pretty much everyone in Detroit. With that said, Vote No on Proposal 6.

After the race, we gathered at my house and quite a few family members came over for chili and a potluck. It was great. The perfect ending to a great race and a beautiful race day. At this point, moving was terrible for me so I pretty much stayed sitting at the table. Paul, Denis, Mary and Melissa hit the road shortly after this because they all had to work on Monday. It was great to see all of them and show them around the city.  

Monday after the race was really difficult. Going up and down stairs and going to the bathroom was to be avoided at all costs. Janet and I took it easy...minus visiting John King bookstore...which if you are from Detroit or been there before you know this is a massive bookstore with 4 floors and tons of stairs. It might have been a mistake to go on Monday after the marathon but it was the only time we could go. I painfully moved up and down the stairs but it was worth it. 

As I right this, I feel a thousand times better. I can move with relative ease. I have been going up and down the stairs like a champ with only slight pain. I am still not ready to run but I feel great. Mostly I am just in shock I ran the time I wanted to run and don't really feel any residual injury. It was a good enough race for me to consider training for another marathon next year. 


Thursday, October 18, 2012

Marathon Info

If you are interested in tracking me via your mobile phone or the internet on Sunday....you can!

There are a few ways to track. All you need to know is my name and my Bib Number which is 1458. Here are the tracking methods:

  • Download the Marathon App
    • If you have a phone that lets you download apps, go to this website and download the Detroit Marathon App:
    • I haven't downloaded the app myself but apparently there is a section of it that will give you live updates of my progress on the course.
  • Track Online
A lot of races offer an option where they will send you text messages of my progress through the race but apparently not this one. These are the only two options I can find so far. Enjoy tracking me!

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Something I Forgot to Mention

Not sure I really mentioned this at all...but I have been training for a marathon all summer long. It feels like eons ago that I did that first 2 or 3 mile run that was miserable. You know...that first run after you haven't run in about 6 months. Well if you don't know that feeling, it's pretty bad. You feel slow and every step seems like really hard work.

Well that was about 6 months ago and I most recently ran 20 miles, 12 miles, and varying distances from 4-6 miles during the week. I won't say any of those runs were easy but they did feel easier than that first run months ago. That is the beauty of marathon training...you really see the benefits and what 6 months of running does for you.

I ran through terrible heat, cold, rain and just about everything else to get ready to run the Detroit Marathon on the 21st. Over the course of my training schedule, I only missed 3 runs and those were really early on. I had a little bit of a soccer injury that kept me off the road...and I had to have a little heart to heart with myself and determine if I really wanted to train and run this race. I decided I did in fact and have had one of the best training experiences of my marathon running career. I don't know if this will lead to a Personal Record for me...but I feel great knowing I stuck with my goal and in a week and a half and I will do this thing.

I have also prided myself a little on running a marathon in every city I lived in...so Detroit is getting added to that list (this doesn't count Eaton Rapids...they don't have a marathon...so it isn't going to happen).

Friday, October 5, 2012

Positive News

Well this has been a big week for me. Just 4-5 weeks ago I was feeling pretty bad. I had applied for quite a few jobs and heard nothing from most of them but I did secure a few interviews...only to hear a lot of sorry  but we have gone with someone else. And about 6 weeks ago my car was stolen as many followers of this blog know. Needless to say, I wasn't too happy nor feeling to good about moving to Detroit. Most of the reason I was looking for a new job was because my position at the Wheelhouse is seasonal. We close for the winter and I am on my own trying to find another position to stay living here.

Fast forward to yesterday....in one day I got a new car and two job offers....two great job offers. Both very different but good replacements to the Wheelhouse. First about the car. Through the help of some great friends I was able to secure an excellent car. It is a 2002 Ford Escort. Two Door, manual, A/C, cruise control. And it is 10 years younger and has 120,000 less miles than the car I previously owned. Now this is an excellent car but I would give anything to not have had my original car stolen. I loved little red (most of the time) and she and I traveled everywhere. I am very grateful to have found a new car though...and immediately walked down to O'Reilly's Auto Parts and bought The Club. My dad and I are also going to install a kill switch and some other theft deterrent measures. I hope to have this car for a long time. I even drove it to work today just because I could :)

Now to the jobs. I interviewed with two great well respected organizations...REI and the YMCA. I was offered a position at both organizations on the same day...which happened to also be the day I got my car. REI is part time doing customer service but I also will receive health insurance. I was impressed with the managers I interviewed with at the store and felt like it could be a fit. The position also comes with room for movement in the store and possibly the organization.

The YMCA position was a full time Annual Campaign Assistant Position. As many of you know, I was previously doing fundraising with the LVs and had a somewhat love/hate relationship with it. I have the skills and ability to be a good if not great fundraiser but I don't always love it. I wasn't sure I would even get an interview for this position but I did. I interviewed with two fellows who would be my supervisors. I really liked them both and I am very much drawn to the ideals and values of the Y.

I hoped I would get offered one of these jobs and I was ready to take whichever one was offered. I wasn't expecting to get offered both...Over the last 24 hours, I have done a lot of soul searching and really thinking about what I want at this time, what I can offer these organizations and what I am truly valuing right now. With all that in mind, I decided the REI position was a better fit. It wasn't an easy decision and will not make me rich (probably poor because I will want to spend all my money at the store). I felt with the flexibility of the position being that it is part time, I will have more time to spend with family, volunteering in the community and continuing to get connected. Now one could argue working downtown at the Y would provide all of these things which is partially true...but ultimately I decided that position at the Y wasn't the best fit for me. Maybe in the future but now.

I know not everyone will understand this and won't get my reasoning...and that's okay. I have always valued living simply and following my dreams and values...even if that means working part time while I continue to discern my future steps. I am excited about the job and hope for the best. I will start there in the next few weeks and be sure to keep you posted.

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Great Documentary

Because of the rain mentioned in my previous post, it has been a very slow day at work. I have been watching this documentary that has been on my must watch list for quite some time. You can watch it on PBS' website. A great documentary from Frontline about AIDs in Black America. I strongly encourage setting aside two hours to watch it.

Watch ENDGAME: AIDS in Black America on PBS. See more from FRONTLINE.

Exploring a City

I have a new goal to explore a new thing in Detroit and the surrounding area each week (surrounding area is relative...I will take suggestions that are farther area as well). Anything is fair game...not matter how big or how small. I am looking for help in expanding my list of things to explore. I am looking for suggestions for museums, parks, food, hiking, anything....

For instance, here are a few things on my list:

  • Detroit Institute of Arts
  • D-Town Farm
  • Heidelberg Project (I have been but it is good to go back)
  • Detroit Film Theater
I already have a bunch more things on there....but I am looking for your help...if you are familiar with the area or just heard of something...I will take it.



When it Rains

This isn't a post about when it rains it pours...you know lots of good things or lots of bad things...I am literally talking about rain. I woke up this morning it was pretty much downpouring. No in a previous month or week this probably wouldn't have been a big deal. But now I am carless and well had to get to work by 10am. Luckily enough I have slowly been buying rain gear over the years to use while biking...but every time it rained before, I would just drive.

Today I had no other option. I put my work stuff in water proof bags, put on my rain paints and jacket and hit the road. And you know it wasn't too bad. The worst part was the rain hitting my face and there is nothing I can do about that. I also forgot to wear shoes covers so my feet got soaked...but I planned ahead for that and brought an extra pair of socks and shoes.

All in all it was a good experience. I am glad I finally was forced into using all my rain gear and I made it. My shoes and socks were soaked but I expected that. My ears got a little cold but I can deal with that in a future ride. I am totally going to do it again :) Not that I want to ride in the rain but I am excited my gear works so well. Use this as inspiration to get out on your bicycle and ride to work....in rain or shine...cold or warm. I have been doing it all summer and it is pretty great!


Monday, September 17, 2012

One Year

It has been one year exactly since I left my job in Washington, DC. On September 17th, I headed to New York City from DC for a weekend of biking and spending time with friends in the city. It was the first of many adventures I took this past year. I can't believe how quickly the past year has flown by and sometimes I wonder what exactly have I accomplished if anything. Then it struck me...this past year wasn't about accomplishing anything. It was about learning to slow down.

Up until Sept. 16th of last year, I was living each day with constant stress and worries. I had a never ending to do list for my life and work life. I always had a vague sense in the back of my mind that I was forgetting something and would often lay awake at night going over everything I needed to do in the next day or worrying that there just wasn't enough time. Finally I decided enough is enough. I wasn't happy. I was removed from many of the things I was passionate about in life. I made the drastic decision to leave my job and pursue some personal dreams...and ultimately move back to MI. In my decision to leave and move home, I hoped to do some discernment, figure out what it is I really want to do and enjoy time with my family. What has this past year brought?

Travel
I have traveled to multiple state and countries. Before I left the country, I had the great opportunity to drive my little red car (now sadly gone) up the east coast and throughout the midwest visiting friends. I also took a trip to the west coast as well. I experienced amazing food, hospitality, adventure, new cultures, dangerous situations and much much more. It was always a dream of mine to spend some significant time traveling. If you include my bicycle trip from last summer, I spent 5 months on the road last year. Here is a tally:
  • States Visited (some multiple times)
    • Idaho, Montana, Wyoming, South Dakota, Maryland, Delaware, Pennsylvania, New Jersey, New York, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Ohio, Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota, Illinois, Indiana, Washington, and Oregon
  • Countries Visited
    • Bolivia, Peru, Israel, Romania (just the airport but it counts), Jordan, Palestine (I am choosing to refer to it as such and not the West Bank), and France
Friends and Family
If anything, this year has been full of connecting with friends and visiting with family. On my travels, I was able to connect with almost all of my greatest friends from various parts of my life. I wasn't able to get to a few (Deanna you are currently at the top of the list) and some I had some surprise drop in visits like with Allison in Connecticut and Suze in Massachusetts. We were all in the same place at the same time which doesn't happen very often. I have been able to spend much more time with family which was one of the main goals of moving home. I went to all of my cousin's weddings this summer...which is a first for me.  I played a bunch of bridge with my grandma. I enjoyed many short trips for family events that normally would have been missed living out of state. I visited with each of my nieces and nephews and Leah even left me alone with all three of her's at one point (it was a success but lets just say when she walked back in the house I let out a big sigh of relief and gratefully handed her Zeke while I slopped food on plates and told the kids to eat after I had been busying them by watching a movie for longer than the approved 45 minutes from their mom).

Detroit
I was lucky enough to get a job at a bicycle shop in Detroit. A week after touching back down in the US from France, I moved my stuff to Detroit and started working. Overall, it has been pretty good. There are definitely times when I wonder what I am doing working part time at a bicycle shop in Detroit and doubt many of the decisions I made to get me to this point. But I try to remember back to the distant call or desire I felt more than a few years ago to move close to home. It might only be for a time...I have no idea at this point but it has been worth it. Even with my car getting stolen :)

Discernment...Yes and No
Spending some time in discernment about my future was also a goal...and I say yes and no because I wasn't always great about setting time aside to really think about the future...but I also determined a few things I definitely don't want to do. I found myself easily distracted by the good book I was reading or damn Netflix and it's never ending stream of watch instantly shows with every single season. In case you are wondering, How I Met Your Mother, Mad Men and Breaking Bad are all great shows...and since I last checked, all are still on instant streaming. And reading...I have had so much time just to read and not feel guilty about it. In the past, I always felt there was something else I should be doing with my time. Discernment will come but I also know I need to make a concerted effort. I am attending a retreat for former volunteers in November which a mentor friend of mine encouraged me to attend. It is still a few months out but his nudge to attend this retreat was just what I needed. I have already spent more time processing and just beginning to think about what's next.

Now I am struggling through the job market and trying to find anything. My job at the bicycle shop is just seasonal and coming to and end in the next few weeks. I am finding increased levels of compassion in myself for people who have been at this a lot longer than me. I am probably too picky but I really want to find some time of work that I am passionate about...even if that means being unemployed a little longer than I would normally care for....or continuing to work part time so I can focus more on what it is I would like to do.

It has been a great year of many ups and downs. I wouldn't take any of it back and I am sitting here wondering what the next year holds...because at this point I have honestly no idea. I haven't lost the travel bug and constantly wonder what it would be like to just pick up and go somewhere. For now, I am trying to plant my feet for a few and find some solid ground here. 

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

Strange Things Happen To Me All The Time

I meant to write about this story right after I got back from Philadelphia but life intervened...you know my car and other things...it happens.

Anyway, I had a wonderful visit to Philadelphia. The whole purpose of the weekend was for my friend Simon's wedding on Sunday, August 19th. I made a weekend out of it and visited with old friends and enjoyed running in the city. Sunday morning, my friend Mali and I were getting ready for the wedding. We were running a few minutes late but felt good about the time. The wedding was at 11am in Doylestown which is about 1 hour from where Mali lives.

As we were leaving the house, we debated whether we should take 95 or 76 to get to Doylestown. Neither is  perfect...they both basically go around Philadelphia and meet up via 276 or 476. The only direct route through the city is Route 1/Broad Street...that would probably take 14 hours because it is stop lights the entire way. I have done it in the past and it is mind numbing how long it takes to get out of the city that way. We decided to take 95 because it was closer to Mali's house. In a last second consultation, we looked at the direction's provided with the wedding invitation. They suggested taking 76...so we changed our route and were on our way.

About 10 minutes later, we were cruising down 76 in the far left lane probably going a little faster than the speed limit. The expressway was four lanes wide at this point just on our side of the median. The next few realizations happened within split seconds...

All of a sudden, I saw a man running on the right side of the highway...well he was more jogging. I then noticed his bright blue street shirt that looked a lot like a Students Run Philly Style shirt and also a many color mohawk wig he was wearing on his head. Just as I was about to say to Mali that it looked like a kid from Students Run, she yelled out, "Oh my God! Is that Tim*?" I looked quickly and agreed that it was in fact Tim! (For those of you familiar with Philadelphia, this is the general spot on the expressway we picked up Tim...marked by the B)



*Name changed

BACK STORY (must read): I was a running leader for Students Run for a little over two years. Through Students Run, I met a ton of people including Simon and Mali. Simon and I have maintained our friendship though my multiple moves and I was so grateful to get an invite to his wedding. If you are over involved in Students Run (like I was), you get to know a ton of other running leaders and especially a ton of students beyond the students on your own team. Mali used to work for Students Run so she knows even more students because she was one of the faces of the organization. Anyway, there are Students Run teams from all over the city and one of the teams is from the Pennsylvania School for the Deaf. Each year they have a ton of students but they always have their regulars...Tim being one of them. Tim is probably around 20, deaf and also has a variety of other learning disabilities. He is a wonderful young man and I have known him for a few years...but he doesn't necessarily know me. I would recognize him anywhere and so would Mali!

STORY CONTINUED: Mali yells, "Oh my God! Is that Tim?" We quickly realize it is...and Mali somehow manages to get across four lanes of traffic and we pull over on the side of the expressway. Mali gets out of the car and starts jogging to Tim. She says he started jogging towards her not out of recognition but thinking...hey there is someone else running out here too. I get out of the car and start calling anyone I know who will be able to help us figure out why Tim is running on the side of the highway (mind you we are both in dresses and look like we should be at a wedding and not running down the highway). I first get a hold of Becky, a running leader and friend, who was a leader for PSD. Meanwhile, Mali leads Tim to the back seat of the car. Becky knows Tim and trying to help me learn how to sign, "Where is home?" over the phone because she is pretty sure he can direct us home. I started signing (or what I think is signing, "where is home?" and Tim does not show any sense of recognition. For all I know I am signing, "Hey what's up?" or something sinister.

Mali starts typing on her iPad, "Where is your home?" I ask Becky, "Can Tim read?" And she quickly says no. We are in a bind. We finally get a hold of Heather who is the Director of Students Run, who gets a hold of Tim's dad. Apparently there was a Students Run race that morning and Tim thought he should be there but missed his bus to the race or something like that (we never got the full story). Tim Sr. agrees to meet up with us about 3 miles away near a big city park in West Philly. We drive over there and pass over Tim Jr. (bright colored mohawk wig and all) who the whole time was just signing to us that he was running. Tim Sr. dropped him off at the park an hour or so earlier and said he was supposed to be running there. Regardless, Tim. Jr. was safe and we were back on our way.

At this point, we have already missed the wedding. We start driving again towards Doylestown completely in shock about what just happened. What if we took 95 instead of 76? What if we didn't see Tim on the side of the road running? What was he doing there in the first place? How did he manage to just run onto the expressway with no one stopping him?

We arrived at the wedding in time for the reception. We had a few mimosas and had a great story to tell. We were incredibly sorry to miss Simon and Melissa's (his bride) wedding. It sounded amazing though! The brunch was excellent and we sat at a great table of old friend's of Simon's. His Best Man gave one of the best wedding toasts I have ever heard. Simon understood (I think)...he too knows Tim and knew Mali and I could not just drive by this deaf kid on the highway without stopping and helping. It's just not in our nature....and trust me we debated...what do we do...miss Simon's wedding...for a split second we thought about bringing Tim to the wedding with us. It would have saved us a lot of time!

The best part...strange/weird things happen to Mali all the time as well...we decided the combination of the strange attraction to weird things happening to us combined to create this epic occurrence and one heck of a story.

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

Found

Well today (Wednesday, August 22nd) a nice woman from the Detroit Police Department called to say my car was recovered. I had a momentary surge of excitement. I am pretty sure I said, "Oh my God..really...where...how is it?" Like I honestly thought it would be in good condition. My hope was fleeting. She started running down the list of what was missing...it goes like this:

Windshield Wipers
Headlights
Battery
Radio
Driver's Door
Hood
Engine Parts

I knew it was all over then...there was no hope. She was stripped and totaled. I quickly called the towing company where she had been taken to. They were open until 7pm so I headed over there right after work. My first indication that this wasn't going to be pretty was all the signs the towing company had tacked up on their bulletproof glass. The signs said, "It is not our fault your car is here." "You cannot take belongings without paying first." And variations of those...my favorite of course was it was not their fault my car was there...that was a good reminder for me.

They looked up my car and a nice fellow took me out to where it was parked on a golf cart. I recognized her immediately even in her stripped down state. They took basically everything in the engine, radio, panels, etc. Pictures below for those who are interested. I was able to recover a few of my maps I had in the glove box (which by the way the glove box was completely gone), a towel, my insurance/registration/license plate, and two very special items...a rock for a LV Retreat that Br. Bud gave us during a reflection and also a Lasallian key chain that said "Live Jesus in Our Hearts." Any Lasallians out there will appreciate how meaningful it was to me to have my car stripped and destroyed yet my rock from this retreat and this key chain were still intact.  I always kept them in the car as a reminder of my time with the LVs and Brothers. I had to dig on the floor to find them but there were there. Everything else was gone...my CDs, books, etc. Nothing of great worth but still gone.

I came back to the towing office and got ready to sign over my title. The car was worthless to me. I don't have comprehensive insurance coverage. It wasn't worth it. The car is 20 years old with almost 250,000 miles. It just wasn't worth the extra coverage every month. Because of that, the insurance company will do nothing...and I am completely out of a car. I signed over the title and found out I had to pay $75 for the towing/impound for a night. This was the first time I really got angry about this whole thing. I mean seriously angry. I had to take a step back and take a deep breath. My car was stolen, ripped apart, and now I have to pay you $75. I reminded myself, "It is not their fault my car is there." They don't deserve my anger. I paid the $75 and thanked them with a smile...and I meant it. They probably deal with angry people all the time who treat them like shit. The least I could do was say thank you and smile. I have full plans to go and visit with my State Representative about this. Your car is stolen and you are left with nothing and you still have to pay...there has to be a way to change that. Rashida will be hearing from me soon.

Again I was reminded of people who have no money and no options...what the hell do they do when their car is stolen and ripped apart? Since folks have heard about my car, I have had many people send emails with links to decent cars or recommend people they know who are selling and reliable. I can't thank people enough for their generosity and care. I am grateful I have so many people in my life who can help me in so many ways. Let this be a reminder to also help our neighbor when they are in need...maybe they don't have as great of a support network as I do.

For now, I am going to try and go without a car until I absolutely need one. I have been applying for a few jobs and some would definitely require me to have a car...others not...so I am going to play this one by ear. Unless of course you have a car you would like to give me. If it is decent, I will gladly take it off your hands. I have been fantasizing about driving a motorcycle...but in reality it would probably be a moped :) Detroit is terrible for public transportation, so this will be a challenge. But a few friends and family have already offered to lend me their car when I might need it.

And now a final ode to the Little Red Car...or Rose as she was known to some and Chiquitita as she was known to others. Chiquitita we had a lot of time together and drove many a miles. I know at times it was a love/hate relationship with maybe a little too much hate on my part. You see I got your for free from my dad but immediately had to spend almost $1000 to keep you running and pass inspection in DC. Then you refused to start. And I had to spend more money and time replacing the fuel pump, fuel filter, electronics in the starting and the alternator. Then you had an exhaust leak. I instafoamed the hell out of you and replaced the muffler. O'Reilly's Auto Parts and I were getting very close. Finally...you were running beautifully. No problems...just smooth sailing. We were starting to really like each other. You drove me back and forth to Michigan and up and down the east coast many times. In your last big hurrah, I packed you with all my belonging and we took a three week journey up the east coast. We spent a week in Philly and a week in NYC. You made it all the way to Connecticut and Massachusetts. You crossed New York with no problem and made it to MI. I unloaded you in Lansing and we took another great trip to the Upper Peninsula, Minnesota, Illinois and back. And now Detroit. You had a great run...may your parts go on living in other cars.

If you are curious where my car was recovered, you can check out this map. It was recovered at Henderson and Ogden which is about 3 miles from my house. Apparently Honda Civics are hot in southwest Detroit and disappear from the streets all the time.

https://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&source=s_q&hl=en&geocode=&q=henderson+and+ogden+detroit,+mi&aq=&sll=42.352711,-83.099205&sspn=0.277567,0.196381&vpsrc=6&ie=UTF8&hq=&hnear=Ogden+St+%26+Henderson+Ave,+Detroit,+Wayne,+Michigan+48210&ll=42.335961,-83.124447&spn=0.034452,0.084543&t=m&z=14&iwloc=A

Here are the photos of my car. There are captions but you might have to click on the photos to read them. Enjoy:






Sunday, August 19, 2012

Missing

Missing
1992 Red Honda Civic
Two Door Hatchback
246,000 miles (plus some change)
Instafoam protruding on the sides
Thrush muffler that makes a purring noise while driving

Well if you haven't heard already, I write to share the news of my poor stolen car. I am in Philadelphia right now for a friend's wedding and have been here since Thursday. I got a call from the folks I live with on Friday that my car...well...it was stolen. They couldn't pinpoint the exact time. It was sometime Thursday night or Friday during the day. Since I talked to them, I have gone through a range of emotions. My first response...laughter...of course something like this would happen to me. Weird, strange, unfortunate stuff happens to me all the time. They mostly end up turning into really funny stories somewhere down the road. Now more than 24 hours removed from hearing about it I am a little angry, frustrated and mostly just wondering why people do something like this.

I have lived in major metropolitan areas for almost 12 years. In that entire time, I have never even felt close to being uncomfortable or threatened. I have never had anything stolen from me or approached on the street or anywhere for that matter in a way that left me frightened or scared. Now here I am in Detroit...less than four months after moving here...and my car is stolen. It is really quite ironic or sad or something like that. I am not sure I have expressed on this blog why I chose to move to Detroit but it was a deeply thoughtful move that I took almost two years deciding to do. I really wanted to move closer to home and family. I felt like I was missing too much in the lives of my nieces and nephews. I was missing too many weddings, parties and events that bring people together in important ways. The flights home were too much or I couldn't take the time off. I was too busy...there was always something preventing me from spending too much time at home. I have come to love living in urban environments and really read about what was happening in the city....I felt like it could be my kind of place. It seemed like the perfect balance between distance to family and the urban environment that I enjoy.

I quit my job without any future planned employment. I picked up all my stuff and moved back to MI. I spent some time traveling and in January I spent a week in Detroit. I found a job and a place to live and moved in late April. I uprooted pretty much everything to make the big move home. Now again here I am four months later, struggling to find a place I fit in, in the early pains of making new friends, trying to find meaningful employment and trying to make the most of my new move...and then my car is stolen. I desperately want to feel at home again in MI and in Detroit. I want it to be my city, my home...but this doesn't help. This early on in moving to a place...it makes you want to pick up and leave and cut your losses before they get any bigger...It makes me want to say F*#$ It and move on.

And finding out about this while in Philadelphia...a city I love and deeply miss...makes it even worse. I have a community here. I poured my heart and soul into this city when I lived here. I haven't lived in Philly for almost 2 1/2 years and yet I still have many close friends and find a way to get back here about every 6 months. This weekend I have been visiting friends and catching up. It almost feels like I never left. Strange how that is possible when I have actually been gone for a while now. They of course have all been encouraging while at the same time whispering why don't you move back here...and trust me I am always open to hearing those whispers...especially today.

While frustrating and annoying, having my car stolen isn't the worst thing that could happen to me. I have loving family and friends who will offer me rides and help me get around...until I get a new car or find another way to travel. I have options...and opportunity. It makes me think about people who don't have options when something like this happens to them. Their car is often their livelihood. It is how they get to work to make money and pay the bills. They might not have savings to replace a stolen car or time even to make the police report and follow up accordingly. What is an annoyance and frustration to me, could very well be a huge disaster for them. When I think about my stolen car from this perspective, it suddenly matters less. I am grateful I have supportive family and friends and options.

I am not sure what I am going to do. I would love to rely more on my bike, but it can't get me to Lansing very easily. I feel forced into getting another car but not feeling like I have the money to swing it. Maybe I will get a motorcycle. I am thinking about putting a sign in the yard that reads, "Whoever took my red Honda Civic. It is important to me and I really need it. Please return it. If you do, I will have no hard feelings and won't press charges." I also want a sign that reads, "Whoever the F&$#er is that stole my car, I would like it back," or something mean and terrible with some flare of the Winnebago Man (if you have seen the Winnebago Man...google it).

If you see a red Honda Civic with some instafoam spilling out the sides...feel free to call the cops. Its mine. I seriously think I had a dream last night that I was riding my bicycle down the road on a really rainy day. I was getting soaked and then someone drove by in my car....warm and dry. I found myself pedaling like mad to catch up only to see the car drive off into the distance. Not enough time to call the cops but just enough to know she is still being used. Its quite frustrating. I spent a great deal of money (at least to me) getting the car drivable and ready to pass inspection in DC. She then refused to start. I spent more time and money getting her running again. Most recently, my dad and I had to drill out the sides and fix the many leaks in the siding from rust and replace the muffler because it was rusted out. I can't believe that after more than two years, I finally got her into perfect driving condition and now she is gone. I guess I can take solace in knowing I don't  need to replace the brakes now (that was the next job). My dad and I laughed at first and said...well all my problems with that car are now gone...true enough but again she was driving like a beauty these days. I had dreams of rolling over 250,000 miles with her. What an amazing day that would be!!!

I hesitate even writing about this because I don't want it to be fodder for people to say I told you so...or Detroit is a piece of shit....what do you expect....or variations of that. I especially don't want this to be a reason people use not to come to the city or fear for their own cars or safety. You can park in our driveway....we have a gate. Use the club...had I parked in the driveway and used the club this might not have happened. You live and learn. Despite my frustrations, I am proud to call Detroit home. There have been more than a few days I have been running, biking or driving around and found myself smiling...because I am just happy to be here. With all the crap you hear about the city, there are real moments of beauty. There are amazing people who have been here forever and new people moving in all the time. There are people who care about the city's future and are doing something about it. So my car was stolen. Hopefully they needed it more than me....maybe I will plant a tree in an empty lot with the people who stole my car and not even know it. Wouldn't that be beautiful?

But seriously...if you see my car...call the cops.

Saturday, August 11, 2012

Videos from Travels

I found these on my computer today. I meant to post them eons ago but never got around it. I am feeling a little sick today...so I am taking care of things I normally ignore as not very important.

Anyway here are two videos from my travels in Israel. The first I recorded as we were leaving the Old City in Jerusalem on our way back to our apartment. It was a few hours before Shabbat started so there was this energy in the city. I don't know how to describe it. You can tell something is coming and people are busy finishing chores, getting home and celebrating...it is very strange and so neat to experience. As we were leaving the Old City, we ran into a group of female soldiers in the Israeli Army. They were in a circle surrounding to older men playing instruments. The older men were playing songs and the whole group of young soldiers were arm in arm singing with them. It was really a neat sight and honestly something I am pretty sure you never see in the US. See for yourself:

IMG 0181 from Mari Anzicek on Vimeo.

The second video I recorded while walking through the Old City. Janet and Max are in front of me. I recorded it to show how busy and crowded the Old City...but also how loud and interesting. It is often more crowded than you see in this video. I wish I could have recorded the smells as well so you can get a sense of the different foods and all other smells you experience while walking through the Old City. And honestly the Old City is pretty cool but it feels like a cramped mall. There are tons of people trying to sell you crap and make deals and get you in their shops. Once you get past all the shops, you experience the real history...but it is like walking through a gauntlet first. Experience it with me:

IMG 0177 from Mari Anzicek on Vimeo.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Came Upon this Today

I found this nifty little graphic today and thought it was awesome. I am not sharing it with all of you:

http://content.sierraclub.org/mypieceofamerica/sites/content.sierraclub.org.mypieceofamerica/files/SierraClub_NPmap.jpg

Enjoy...

Thursday, July 26, 2012

A few more tidbits about running in the city

I forgot to add my love of Belle Isle. It is a great place to run, play sports, go swimming and just enjoying the city. It is one of the largest city parks in the country and for the sure the largest island city park. For those unfamiliar check out the always reliable wikipedia page ;) I am in a soccer league and we play all of our games here and at Fort Wayne. It is really quite a fantastic place...migh tbe on the run down side but I can't speak enough about it. I am a fan. The city and the powers that be are debating right now about giving the control of the park over to the state so it can get the much needed influx of cash to be run efficiently and at a much higher level. I for one am a fan of that.

The other great thing about running in Detroit....if you are ever feeling badly about yourself, a kind gentleman or two will give you some nice compliments. Here are a few examples of some of the nice compliments/questions I have received:

  • You look good.
  • How much do you workout?
  • Do you run often?
There are an assortment of other ones and sometimes they just whistle or clap. My favorite are the conversations I have when people follow me in their car or on bicycle. It goes something like this:

Them: Hey Girl (or darling or sweetheart or something like that)
Me: Hi
Them: You look good. How long was your run?
Me: Thanks (with an appropriate answer to the length of my run)
Them: Do you have a boyfriend?
Me: Yes (stock answer regardless of the truth of this statement)
Them: Oh does he run with you often?
Me: Yes but not today (again stock answer)
Them: He's lucky.
Me: Thanks
Them: Some version of "Keep it up or way to go" and then they move on.

If you made it this far and didn't realize I was being funny...know that I am...but seriously if I am feeling down sometimes these compliments help out ;)

Monday, July 23, 2012

Why I Love Running in Detroit

As you may or may not know, I am training for the Detroit Marathon right now. I had a very unsuccessful 10 mile run this evening. I mean I finished it...but it was painful and slow and I ran out of water multiple times. The last mile or so I had to walk because I was desperately thirsty and just the though of running made me even more thirsty.

Now why would I start a post titled, "Why I Love Running in Detroit", with such a sad story...well because today I discovered a great place to run in the city (or pretty close to the city). I ran along Hines Drive which is about 16 miles of bike/running path along a relatively quiet road with plenty of places to use the bathroom and get water (sadly today most of them were locked...hence my terrible dehydration). Anyway, I thought I would make a list of my favorite reasons for running in Detroit.

  • Previously mentioned Hines Drive
    • Minus my own problems thinking about my hydration needs ahead of time, it was a great place to get in a long run...It is probably even better for biking.
  • Running into people I know
    • Now don't get me wrong, I don't know that many people in Detroit but probably of 50% of my runs I run into someone I know. I love the small town feel of the city. It helps that I am in a soccer league with tons of other folks. You get to know a lot of people quickly.
  • Getting to know the city by foot
    • You see a lot more when you are running slowly. I run by empty fields, burned down or broken down buildings, the site of old Tigers Stadium, neighborhoods trying to make a resurgence. It is really quite interesting observing the changes happening in the city both good and bad.
  • The Dogs
    • Don't get me wrong...I hate the dogs that you can't see at first and start barking like crazy when you run by. They are all for the most part behind fences and bark at you for the length of the fence. If I can't see them at first, it always scares the shit out of me. The best part though is I mostly get chased by these little tiny chihauhau dogs while the scary looking ones just sit there too sleepy. It always makes me laugh...as long as I am on the right side of the fence.
  • Detroit Urban Running League
    • Yes there is such a thing. I don't know who started it, but they meet at Belle Isle and run various distances on Saturdays and other times during the week. I was hoping for a running partner or two and got a whole group.
There are probably quite a few more reasons but this is what I got for now. If you happen to be in the city, join me for a run or a bike ride.

Oh and why I hate running in Detroit...I can never find a bathroom and water is scarce to come by. Many of you know my travails with needing to go to the bathroom while running so of course this often creates problems for me. And as empty as Detroit feels at times...it is often hard to find a field to squat in or a tree to hide behind. I have had quite a few close calls over the past few months of running...

Monday, April 23, 2012

Pictures from My trip

As you can tell, I did a terrible job of blogging while traveling. It is not as easy as on might think. I have gone through all of our photos and put captions on most of them. If you are interested (or bored) and would like to look through them, here is the link:

https://plus.google.com/photos/104120906655696580108/albums/5734402413180210513?authkey=CL-Zub-TnaqYfg

I have an idea to blog about the trip now that I am back. That might actually happen....there were really some amazing experiences we had that you won't really see through the photos. So check back and there might be some posts about the trip....post-trip.

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Journey to Jerusalem

Well it has been hard to find a regular computer to write a post. I am resorting to writing this on my iTouch so this will be much shorter. I decided from here on out I can probably do some shorter posts on my iTouch and post more frequently. Only time will tell if that actually happens.

We are finally in Jerusalem and met up with my family today. But much has happened to get us here. This is the abbreviated rundown.

We Hitchhiked to southern Israel. While in the car, our driver told us he was from Ashdod which was receiving some of the hits from the recent rocket blasts. His mom called him in the car to say another rocket had hit, but they were all okay in a shelter. It definitely brought the reality of the conflict close to home.

We crossed the border into Jordan with zero problems and spent a day in Petra. It was absolutely amazing. I don't have words to express how incredible it was and to experience the hospitality of the Bedouins there.

We took a bus to Amman and onto the border. I was the only person on my bus to get patted down and given the third degree on questions related to why I was coming back into Israel from Jordan. Apparently customs in Israel has my number.

We made it to Nazareth and stayed in an amazing convent run by French nuns. They invited us to their morning prayer which was great. Coming into Nazareth you finally feel like you are entering the Christian centered part of the country. The churches are huge there and connections to Jesus' life are everywhere.

We rented a car in Tiberias partially because getting to the northern parts of Israel is difficult and because it is Shabbat and everything shuts down. We were able to see the Sea of Galilee and much of the beauty of the beauty of the Golan. Seriously this is one beautiful country with much changing scenery.

We arrived in Jerusalem this afternoon and had a few hours to kill so we visited part of the Old City. We met up with Aunt Kathleen, Uncle Mark, Eva and Jamison for dinner. Afterwards Lev came by and visited. I was already excited to be here and experience the wedding and after talking to him I am looking forward to it even more.

It has been a whirlwind of a week. Janet and I are both looking forward to this week in Jerusalem. I will try and post about the wedding and events going on here.

And most importantly. Go State.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

A few days in Israel

It has been a busy few days in Israel. Janet and I keep commenting that it feels like we have already been here for weeks. I will try and catch you up on our travels so far. I don't know how often I will post photos on here but I have been almost daily uploading photos to facebook because that is easier.

Flights and Arrival
Everything went pretty smoothly until we got to Romania for a layover. Janet almost missed our connecting flight in Paris and was the last person on the airplane. We arrived in Romania for a second layover (this was the cheapest itinerary we could find) and had to go through customs and check back in with our new airline, El Al. I read about and heard about how strict El Al can be and they didn't let us down. We came through Romanian customs with no problems only to find Janet's bag which they forced her to check in LA didn't make the connecting flight.

We got our new tickets and proceeded to the security for El Al. They separated the both of us and asked many questions probably for about 15 minutes. The questions ranged from why are we visiting Israel, how long are we staying, did anyone else touch our bags, where is your cousin's wedding, how are you related to your cousin, did anyone give you gifts to bring, and the list goes on. They were thorough to say the least. Janet later told me she could barely answer the questions because she knew she was coming for the wedding but had zero information about it. Regardless they finally let us through and then proceeded to check the contents of our bags. They also made both of us check all the bags we had and only carry on our passport and one other thing. I literally walked through security carrying my iTouch and passport.

Once we got to the gate for the flight, there is another security checkpoint. Pretty much every single other passenger went through with no problems but they stopped us and checked us again. They made us go through the security screening again, swabbed our feet and the stuff we carried on for a bomb test (you know the kind they do) and finally let us through. It wasn't until we got on the flight that we realized we were the only ones they did this to. Everyone else had all of their carry on bags and other materials. They also sat Janet and I in different rows and we didn't have anyone else sitting with us. Honestly at this point it felt pretty comical but we were happy to make it on the airplane. Also during the whole check in procedure it was obvious they were watching us and every single El Al employee knew exactly who we were.

We landed in Tel Aviv with no problems and were pleased to find Janet's bag had been put on another flight to Tel Aviv from Paris. Later when we were unpacking, we discovered they literally went through every single thing in our bags. All the contents of my bag was rearranged. Stuff that I packed in the top was now in the bottom. Even my toiletry bag was all askew. All in all it was almost 24 hours of total time in airports and on flights but we made it safely and arrived at our hostel at 1:30am. I do have this to say about El Al...they have great in flight food. By far my favorite of the three flights.

Where are we now?
We spent a day in Tel Aviv visiting a market, the Diaspora Museum, getting our feet wet in the Mediterranean, and taking in the sites and sounds. Everyone can't believe we only spent a day there but I in particular was excited to get out of the big cities and see the beauty of the country. We took a few buses on Thursday and arrived in Mitzpe Ramon. It is a small town of 5,000 people on the edge of Makhtesh Ramon which is basically a unique geological formation caused by erosion and millions of years. It looks like a huge crater or canyon but if someone hears you call it that they will correct you.

The hostel we are staying at is wonderful and the couple who run it are outstanding. They provided detailed information about hiking in the Makhtesh and gave a sunset tour of the Makhtesh rim and described in detail the town, how the Makhtest was formed and interesting tidbits about the area.

Purim
We arrived in Israel at the exact same time as the Purim holiday. The holiday commemorates when the Jews beat the Persians in a series of battles many many years ago but as the local describe it...it is basically Halloween. It is also the only time of year Jews are basically commanded to drink. I didn't make that up. I heard that from more than a few people. Adults and children alike get involved (children at least with the costumes). We saw young and old dressed in various costumes all day long. The holiday lasts until the weekend and involves a great deal of revelry, partying and staying out late.

Upon our arrival in Mitzpe Ramon, we were lucky to be invited to a special Purim parade in Sde Boker which is about 30 minutes north of Mitzpe. It is also the burial place of David Ben-Gurion. The parade is put on by the local high school and they make everything from recycled or soon to be recycled materials. The four grades in the high school compete against each other. They are each given a theme and have to make floats from scratch and dance numbers. It is basically amazing. One of the best parades I have been to. We will be sure to post photos and videos from the parade. My favorite was the class with the Establishment of the State Theme. Their floats were incredible...one with David Ben-Gurion standing on his head (posted on facebook).

Hiking
We went on a beautiful hike yesterday in the Makhtesh with our new friend Max who is also staying in our hostel. It was about a 7 mile hike and it got very hot near the end...we are in the desert after all. The hike finished near the main road and you basically hitch hike back. It took us about an hour to get picked up and a little over two more miles of walking. I was dead on my feet at this point but we finally got picked up by a van full of people headed back to Mitzpe. I was exceedingly grateful.

There is probably much more to say but I will leave it at this for now. It is beautiful here in the desert and it is obvious Israeli's love their country. We have also found everyone to be extremely nice and helpful. I loved traveling in Bolivia and Peru but there is nothing better than being able to speak English here and being understood.

Monday, March 5, 2012

And We're Off

I head to the airport tonight for my trip to Israel and France. I am meeting up with a great friend from the Lasallian Volunteers program who volunteered with me a few years back. Janet and I will be in Israel for about 2 1/2 weeks. During one week, I will be in Jerusalem with my extended family for my cousin's wedding. This will easily be the highlight of the trip.

After Israel, we head to France for two weeks. One week we will be traveling around and the second we are going to the Taize community. I guess it is kind of like two pilgrimages we are undertaking.

More posts to come.

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Awesome Bike Video

This is pretty cool. A short film about how Gazelle built bikes back in the day. Way back in the day! Watch for tips on cold setting your frame and on how to get a free zeppelin ride.


Gazelle 1925 from Gazelle Bicycles Australia on Vimeo.

Monday, January 23, 2012

Where Everything is Made

I just listened to an excellent episode of This American Life on my car trip to DC. It was about Apple products and basically the working conditions in China. I am aware of much of what they had to say but somehow the presentation of it helped it to have a more profound effect on me.

Take a listen

http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/454/mr-daisey-and-the-apple-factory

And let me know what you think. I am curious what your initial reaction was and if it prompted you to make any changes in your life...to be honest I am thinking about making a few.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Drum Roll Please.....

Well I have spent a lot of time thinking of the last few weeks (and really much longer) trying to figure out what's next. I have been able to put a few things together and I officially have some sense as to what the next nine or so months are going to look like...so here goes:

One of my main goals in taking this "sabbatical" was to spend more time with family and I have been able to do just that. I have seen each of my siblings and their families along with getting some good quality time with each of my parents. I have also been able to spend some time with aunts and uncles and my grandma which has been wonderful. There isn't anything that can replace late night dance parties with Amelia, seeing a dinner and movie with my grandma, playing at the science museum with Rosie and Issac, watching State games with Collin, and various other experiences that I often miss living so far away.

January/February
I am continuing to spend time with family and take a two week spin to Washington, DC and Philadelphia to visit some great friends and probably paint a table or two with my friend Mali. I am also going to attend some family bridal showers and potentially take a quick trip up north to visit my sister.

March
My cousin, Lev, is getting married in Israel in March and I couldn't miss this opportunity to be a part of his wedding. I am joining my Aunt Kathleen, Uncle Mark, cousin Eva and her husband Jamison to see Lev get married and participate in the festivities. He is getting married in Jerusalem on March 19th in a traditional Orthodox Jewish wedding. I am very excited to go and also to see the country. My good friend, Janet, will be joining me for the trip. Janet is a friend of mine from the Lasallian Volunteers program. She volunteered in NYC while I was in Philadelphia and we got to know each other very well. We have been talking about traveling together for awhile now and this all came together. We will be visiting Tel Aviv, Jerusalem, Nazareth, Bethlehem and many other place...and hopefully go to Jordan as well.

April
Janet and I will be in Israel for about two and a half weeks and then we fly to Paris and will make our way to Taize. Taize is an ecumenical community in France that welcomes people from all over the world year round to experience prayer and communion with God. Ever since I was introduced to Taize prayer, I have always wanted to visit the actual community in France...and I am finally getting the opportunity. Janet and I will be there for at least a week and potentially two. I will celebrate my 30th birthday in France which is kind of exciting. If you would like to learn more about the community and what they are about, you can check out their website here: http://www.taize.fr/en.  I have included a video from their website at the bottom of this post which describes more about the community.

Late April/May through September/October
For at least a year now but probably longer, I have been thinking about moving closer to home and in particular Detroit. I told someone recently I felt Michigan and specifically Detroit whispering my name if that makes any sense. Combined with my Uncle Matt and my Grandma Lois passing away in the past year, I felt a need to be closer to home...that I was missing too much with my family and life is quite short sometimes. With all these thoughts in mind, I meticulously started following articles and blogs about things happening in Detroit and let the idea seep deeper into my soul. I recently visited Eva and Jamison for a few days in the city to explore and get a sense of the place. I was born in Detroit but have never really felt like it was home.

During my visit, I met with the owner of a local bike shop in the city and was offered a job working for them starting in mid April. I will work in the shop and help lead tours around the city from late April until they close in October. It is really a perfect opportunity for my to explore the city, get to know some people and really decide if I would like to make a more permanent move there. Only time will tell.

None of this is out of the blue although it might seem like it to some of the folks who read this. I have been thinking about moving to Detroit and this spring trip for awhile now and it all just came together in the past seven days. I have been waiting to post until I knew more specifics. I am both excited and nervous for the next part of this year but mostly excited. I get to have more dance parties with Amelia, watch more state games with Collin, catch a few more movies and figure out of me and Detroit are a good fit. It is really the first time in a long time that I felt these were the right moves and decisions...I mean I could totally be wrong and hate the bike shop and Detroit, but I will never know until I experience it. And I am pretty sure I will regret it if I never give it a chance.

More to come later and for sure I will try and blog while I am in Israel and France. On a side note, Janet and I have a layover in Romania...I am going to try and count it as visiting the country!

Here is the Taize Video:
Life at Taizé from Taize on Vimeo.

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

Worth the Watch

You might be wondering what I am up to and doing next...well I don't even know yet. So instead of an update...you are being sent an incredibly cool video I came across online. I seriously would love to do a project like this.

http://blog.onbeing.org/post/15630698929/jeff-harris-4-748-self-portraits-and-counting-by

It is a neat video but also sad and strangely uplifting too.

Monday, January 2, 2012

Finally the Pictures

Well I finally went through my photos. Deleted some, put captions on others and tried to narrow it down...there are still a ton but hopefully you will enjoy them. If you are only interested in Machu Picchu photos they start about half way through. I tried to put notes explaining most of the photos.

Link to all of the photos from the trip:
https://picasaweb.google.com/mari.anzicek/SouthAmerica?authuser=0&authkey=Gv1sRgCM6az4vo1_iatgE&feat=directlink

Final Thoughts/Reflections/Information I missed posting about on the Trip

  1. Spanish
    1. I relied too much on Bridget although she was great. I really should have spent more time learning some basic Spanish before I left. I learned quite a bit by the time I left but it would have made the whole trip a lot easier for me.
  2. Transportation
    1. You get used to hopping in cars quickly, using no seat belts and praying for your life rather frequently. There were only a few close calls but I think after awhile you get desensitized to it. I have really appreciated putting my seat belt on and being in control of the car since I have been back.
  3. Using the Bathroom
    1. It is like going to the bathroom anywhere else except you have to bring your own toilet paper, throw it away in the trash can and you don't often have a toilet seat. I only had to use a squatty toilet once. There were also a lot of rustic toilets which you had to dump water down to flush. Again there was nothing sweeter than walking into the bathroom in the Miami airport, sitting down without second guessing, having toilet paper provided for me and being able to flush with a push of a handle. Also, there was hand soap which is often lacking in bathrooms all over in Bolivia and Peru. Needless to say I used a lot of hand sanitizer while I was gone.
  4. Companions
    1. We were incredibly lucky and got partnered with some great companions on our tours. In the Salar, Colca Canyon Trek and our bicycle tour, we met people from all over the world traveling for varying lengths of time. We shared great stories, laughed until we cried and learned a lot about where everyone was from. I am confident in saying I feel comfortable visiting these folks in their hometown. 
  5. The Incas
    1. I am still so amazed by everything the Incas accomplished. My mom gave me the book "Turn Right at Machu Picchu" for Christmas. I just finished reading it and realized we missed so much in our visit. Don't get me wrong. We saw a lot but there is just so much there. If I ever go again, I would do one of the various Inca Trail hikes. Getting off the main trails is essential to seeing some of the other ruins...it also costs a lot though. We made the right decision for rainy season and who knows maybe I will get another chance in the future.
  6. Preparation
    1. I would have done a little more research ahead of time. We did a lot from the seat of our pants and luckily got to see so much. It helped that we were not traveling during the busy season so we didn't have to plan too far ahead of time. We also ran into lots of people who helped us out and friends who had traveled before who gave us some great advice. I just wish I would have read up on the Incas a little more. Now I am just appreciating it more after the fact.
Overall, it was great trip. I would travel with Bridget again in a second. We had an amazing time and saw and experienced so much. I am inspired to learn more Spanish and about the cultures we visited. I hope everyone gets a chance to travel. If not out of the country, then around our beautiful country as well. 

Change of Pace

I realized at some point that I never posted my final reflection from the bike ride this summer or any of our awesome photos. I know I am fresh of coming back from Bolivia and Peru but here is my reflection from this summer along with some links to photos.

I am working on going through the Bolivia and Peru photos so hopefully those will be posted shortly. Thanks for reading.

Summer Reflection
http://dl.dropbox.com/u/21363323/LVs%20Ride%20-%20Personal%20Thank%20You%20Letter.pdf

Summer Photos (Some of the best)
https://plus.google.com/photos/104120906655696580108/albums/5649751333728689137?authkey=COHm9rn3iqH19AE